{"id":6488,"date":"2019-10-08T17:59:10","date_gmt":"2019-10-08T16:59:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/?p=6488"},"modified":"2022-09-20T16:15:15","modified_gmt":"2022-09-20T15:15:15","slug":"how-to-keep-going-when-your-confidence-has-been-hit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/how-to-keep-going-when-your-confidence-has-been-hit\/","title":{"rendered":"How to keep going when your confidence has been hit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Confidence is a tricky thing, even at the best of times. No matter how many big projects you\u2019ve done, or how long your list of commissions gets, your ego can still fail you. Creatives of all kinds are familiar with the impact of imposter syndrome, and the feeling that their work might not be good enough. Add to this critical clients or flat-out rejection, and the demons can come.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6947\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6947\" style=\"width: 1080px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-6947 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Alex-Jenkins-final-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"887\" srcset=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Alex-Jenkins-final-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Alex-Jenkins-final-1-300x246.jpg 300w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Alex-Jenkins-final-1-768x631.jpg 768w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Alex-Jenkins-final-1-1024x841.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6947\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Artwork by Alex Jenkins<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h4>No-one is confident all the time<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Illustrator Alex Jenkins says he still struggles with self-assurance, despite working for huge names including Vans, Netflix and Adult Swim. \u201cI feel that confidence can waver day to day,\u201d he explains. \u201cOften confidence issues in my creativity pop up, and I struggle for ideas. But also confidence in my ability and technique.\u201d&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s a similar story for artist Saskia Pomeroy, who told us, \u201cI don\u2019t always think my work is brilliant, and often compare my artistic career with others, and wonder, \u2018what\u2019s wrong with me?\u2019 I feel like my work must be shit because I\u2019m not doing huge, well-paid projects. It\u2019s not really personal like that though, there are reasons why my work isn\u2019t like others, or why you don\u2019t get picked for a job. It\u2019s just business at the end of the day.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just keep trying to be as productive as possible and keep creating<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For Jenkins, being ghosted by art directors or clients can prompt a crisis in confidence, while Pomeroy describes herself as her own worst enemy &#8211; tending to worry about things, and let her inner voice bring her down. Their feelings are relatable, and perhaps not surprising considering the nature of the creative industry. Clients are demanding, timelines are short, and budgets often tight. The challenges of freelancing also puts added pressure on many artists.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6949\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6949\" style=\"width: 1080px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6949\" src=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/saskia-pomeroy.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/saskia-pomeroy.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/saskia-pomeroy-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/saskia-pomeroy-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/saskia-pomeroy-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/saskia-pomeroy-1024x1024.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6949\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Original artwork by Saskia Pomeroy<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h4>Dealing with the crisis<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So when the crisis inevitably comes, what\u2019s the best way to deal with it? Jenkins says exercise is a good release. For him, a good reset to a day &#8211; or a solution to waking up feeling groggy and unmotivated &#8211; is to hit the punch bag for a solid 30 minutes. \u201cJust breaking up the routine and getting blood flowing basically, as clich\u00e9d as that sounds,\u201d he told us. He also recommends spending some time stirring up your inspiration. Jenkins says he draws from as many sources as possible, whether that\u2019s going to an exhibition rather than relying on Pinterest, or sketching something out instead of using a stock image site.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6950\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6950\" style=\"width: 864px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-6950 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins3.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"864\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins3.jpg 864w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins3-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins3-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins3-819x1024.jpg 819w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 864px) 100vw, 864px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6950\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Artwork by Alex Jenkins<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cJust keep trying to be as productive as possible and keep creating,\u201d he says. \u201cYour mindset will change anyway, so whilst feeling down keep plugging away on what you do. And if you are struggling to think of new things to create, then change up the process of how you get there. Experiment with new mediums or draw things you aren\u2019t always comfortable with doing. Welcome new challenges as getting through these will benefit your mindset down the line.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For Pomeroy, getting some perspective on things can give you the reboot you need. \u201cJust go and have a beer and fuggeddaboutit y\u2019know,\u201d she says. \u201cLife is way too short for feeling down on yourself and losing opportunities because you think you might not be good enough. 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/BuwAQ8pFcpR\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\">A post shared by Saskia Pomeroy (@saskia_pomeroy)<\/a> on <time style=\" font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px;\" datetime=\"2019-03-08T14:06:14+00:00\">Mar 8, 2019 at 6:06am PST<\/time><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><script async src=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h4>It gets better with experience<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dealing with self-assurance is an issue that creatives face throughout their career, but the good news is it often gets easier over time. For Pomeroy, getting more experience and growing older has taught her how to deal with her insecurities more productively, and recognise when she\u2019s exacerbating those feelings. \u201cI\u2019m not there yet though, it\u2019s probably a life\u2019s work!\u201d she says. \u201cMy mum is the same, she\u2019s a painter, her work is great, but she hates selling her work.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Jenkins also says getting experience under your belt can help. \u201cYou learn how to cut certain corners but also essentially toughen up to criticisms or rejection,\u201d he told us. \u201cWhat is important is to keep motivated and keep working on your own skills and development along the way.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can grow a thick skin if you get knocked back a lot<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One way of dealing with feelings of inadequacy is to accept that rejection is inevitable, but doesn\u2019t have to take over.&nbsp; Remember that your style won\u2019t resonate with everyone, and that keeping yourself available to people who will discover and like your work is still important.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWork work work!\u201d says Pomeroy. \u201cThe more you work on whatever it is you do, the better you become. It will give you a confidence in your work that comes across. And remember that you can\u2019t be the best of everyone, ever. You can just be you, and that\u2019s great! It\u2019s about pinpointing those thoughts and saying, \u2018No, I CAN do this!\u2019.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6948\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6948\" style=\"width: 850px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-6948 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins-2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"850\" height=\"1000\" srcset=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins-2.jpg 850w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins-2-255x300.jpg 255w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/alex-jenkins-2-768x904.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 850px) 100vw, 850px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6948\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Alex Jenkins&#8217; &#8216;Hold It Together&#8217; T-shirt<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h4>It has an upside<\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Getting knocked back is an unfortunate part of being creative, but it sometimes has its benefits. Jenkins says getting turned down can help identify what part of the industry your work is best suited to, and clear up feelings of vagueness. He even believes a bit of criticism can be good for self development.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_6951\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-6951\" style=\"width: 1080px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6951\" src=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/SASKIA2-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/SASKIA2-1.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/SASKIA2-1-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/SASKIA2-1-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/SASKIA2-1-819x1024.jpg 819w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-6951\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Artwork by Saskia Pomeroy<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As Pomeroy points out: \u201cYou can grow a thick skin if you get knocked back a lot and it makes me think about what it is I can do to improve my portfolio, how can I make my work more accessible for whatever direction.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Staying confident is hard, but it\u2019s important to remember that feelings of insecurity have dogged even the most successful artists and designers. Deal with the crisis when it comes, understand that experience will teach you how to handle low moments, and most importantly, keep making work, even when it seems impossible.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Catch the last article in our \u2018How To\u2019 series? If not, read it here: <a href=\"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/how-to-stay-sane-when-working-from-home\/\">How To Stay Sane Working From Home<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019re turning to an issue that can affect even the most experienced creatives: how to keep going when your confidence has been hit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":6943,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[138],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6488"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6488"}],"version-history":[{"count":19,"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6488\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12996,"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6488\/revisions\/12996"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6943"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/everpress.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}